In a society of only women, even one in which males are periodically pulled from the swamp for reproductive purposes (which, based on current population levels, is not even necessary for women to exist), the word matriarchy would be redundant because it means “a system of society or government ruled by a woman or women” and donating sperm is not a sufficient definition of social membership. So aside from its inclusion of Amazonian women, who were more straight up separatist than “matriarchal,” the whole field of matriarchal studies is an excuse to justify men’s parasitic existence at women’s expense and I’m through with it.
the following links are for reference as to why porn and bdsm are harmful. this is why you cannot be a feminist if you support either. i suggest you educate yourself with these if any part of you is fond of porn or bdsm
obviously, a massive trigger warning goes for all of them
- porn in harmful    
- porn stars are abused     
- empowerment is for the privileged
- porn revolves around hurting and degrading women 
- porn has legalized harassment
- porn brainwashes us  
- porn is racist
- porn promotes rape culture
- and so much more 
- femdoms are still perpetuating misogyny (1) (2) (3)
- bdsm breeds harassment
- there’s a reason why women are almost always the sub
- it sexualizes violence (1)
- grooming is a factor that must be addressed
- ever heard of socialization? (1)
- it kills women
- it is sadistic and it scares women
- it appropriates consent (1) (2) (3)
- it enables rape culture (1) (2) (3) (4)
- it shits on rape victims (1) (2)
- its history is appalling
- the bdsm community is disgusting
Read that AGAIN.
That’s 17.800.000 million, more than 17.8 millions girls dead. If this doesn’t scare the shit outta of you, perhaps you should go make friends with the great white sharks.
“Sure the porn industry is terrible, but I like it, so it can’t be all bad.”
Just stop, forever.
if bitch or cunt or slut or any other gendered slur is a regular part of your vocabulary please unfollow me, delete me, i do not want to be anywhere around you
the smarter u are the more men arent funny